Some women go out looking for sex. Here's how to find them and make it happen.
1. She's Chatting Up the BartenderA
flirtatious woman can hardly contain herself. She won't let a male waiter or bartender take her order without flashing a smile and saying something silly, like, "What can you make me that would be really yummy?"
2. She's Scanning the RoomWhen women go out to
bond with friends, they have blinders on. If they're not looking around, don't bug them. But when they want to mingle, they'll be scanning for cute men. They may even sit facing the room instead of each other.
3. She's Playing GamesDarts, pool, pinball—women know this makes them easier to approach. That's why they do it. It's easy to get a man's attention when you're about to jab him in the ribs with a
pool cue.
4. Her Drink is Big, Frozen, and BlueShe's ready to party, which means meeting new people and having a good time, not getting naked with the first guy who
buys her another round. But sometimes it does mean getting naked with the first hot, cool guy who buys her another round.
5. She Sends You a Zoolander Eye LockAnd the
eyebrow raise, and/or at least two smiles (full, open-lipped, teeth smiles). Go over there and talk to her already. Caveat: There's a small chance she just thinks you're funny looking, but go ahead, have some balls. She's worth it.
6. Her Pupils are DilatedIf she's feeling stimulated by you (not just sexually), her pupils will dilate. That's because her
body is programmed to want to see more of whatever's exciting her, so her brain tells her irises to let in more light. Time to make your move.
7. She Lets You Get CloseAs you flirt, stand or sit within 6 inches of her. If she seems unruffled,
move closer. Eventually you want your thigh to be pressed against hers, whether you're standing or sitting. If she's into it, she won't back off.
8. She's a ChatterboxIf she leans forward when you're talking or asks you endless questions, the only way to shut her up is to
kiss her.
9. She Uses Her TongueA make-out session is a prerequisite to any sexual proposition. Kiss her lips softly and note how intensely
she's kissing back. You want the "I want to eat you alive" kind of kiss, not the sweet "I'm not a dirty girl" kind of kiss.
10. She's Wearing Thigh-High StockingsWomen only wear
sexy underthings when they're expecting a man to see them. If she's wearing a thong, she's trying to avoid panty lines, but sex is on her mind, too. Anything black, red, pink, leopard print, or lace equals "I want you."